Generous Malaysian

Arituh masa kat tesco shopping berdua dengan umar je, time kat cashier aku nk letak umar dlm ssc aku (snugbaby) boleh plak tak boleh buckle up for the back one.
selalu nyerh senang je.
sebab nyer few days back my husband use it, so he kinda adjust it.
sigh feel like buying another 1 for him. haha if duit bertingkek2 la kan.

skg ni if g tesco, suka letak umar dlm troli, kasi dia tengok dunia luas sikit haha.
so masa nak bayar tuh, aku takot la nanti if aku terlepas pandang umar ke, ada je sesapa nak culik umar.
takot kan tuh yang nak letak dia balik dlm ssc.

kebetulan tengah long queue kat counter, so takperla aku pon take time la mencuba gak.
Mungkin sebab kesian sangat tengok kat mak orang yang terkial2 cuba buckle up ni, ada sorg lelaki chinese mix kot tanyerh aku "u need help?"
hahaha teros aku "yes plis"
but a guy in front of him yang tolong buckle up kan.

wuteva it is, alhamdulillah syukur they are so generous.
Not only that, the guy also tolong angkat kan mineral water besar yang aku beli letak atas meja cashier.
dun ask me why i need to buy that mineral water when im handling umar alone.

I dunno why but i always feel happy if i able to lighten up some of my husband's task.
He dun even ask me to buy those things alone but to wait him getting back from work, went out after magrib to buy some urgent groceries stuffs and be back at 9.30 and everyone will be tired by then.
Only that lil guy (umar) full of energy because remember we carry him around he didnt burn his calory yet haha.

I do make groceries list for us to buy over the weekend but sometimes i still miss some important things.
Like why must chili sauce habis time ni?
kenapa bawang putih habis tiba2?
ohs i think i want to buy some toys for umar. He looks bored. Rite umar?

Actually sometimes i just make an excuse for both of us to go out :p.
Obviously it's bored to stay at home 5 days straight and wait for weekend to go to anywhere.

Btw i stop baking for awhile or maybe for real haha because umar and i sick that 2 straight weeks.
Then suddenly i got idea for new business coming up soon.
The website business still running.
Just i stop baking for awhile or for good. cant decide yet actually.
For now im concentrate on something else hopefully will turn out as what we plan InsyaAllah.
Actually husband kinda approve for this new business because he dun like me to be busy with baking when handling umar.
He just ask the budget, approve it and let me handle the details.
Sometimes i cant believe he trust me until that extend.
Must be that thing called LOVE rite? kahkahkah jangan muntah hijau.

Apapon, with this new business insyaallah tidaklah aku penat sangat macam baking sbb umar pon dah boleh jalan. So memang tak sesuai aku nak berbaking sekarang.
Memang ngejar dia je n main ngan dia. Dia nap, buatla kerja2 rumah apa2 yg patot.

Ohs also that day, when i brought umar to the playground, i bumped to our chinese neighbour.
Tak pernah jumpa pon b4 this tp sebab dia tengah bawak2 anak2 dia main basikal, tiba2 dia dtg nak borak2 ngn aku yg tengah sebok layan umar naik buai.

Dia tanya la umar berapa bulan.
tanyerh dah boleh jalan belom.
aku ckpla dah tp belum la 100%.
ada lah jatuh2 gak.

Sebenarnyerh aku tak kisah pon umar cepat or lambat jalan sbb aku tau baby ada phase dia sendiri.
takya nak paksa2. just bagi galakan yang sepatut nyerh la kan.

Dia cakap if nak baby cepat jalan, biar dia jalan dekat luar rumah atas tanah, or simen or rumput tanpa kasut.
Confirm cepat jalan.
or beli kasut yang bagus bukan kasut murahan baby cmtuh.

ohs aku iyekan je la.
yang baik kita ambil la kan?
pastuh dia kata bagus tunjuk flash card bergambar kat anak skg.
takya yang ada tulisan.
sbb baby 1-3 tahun otak dia macam sponge.
Alhamdulillah aku bersyukur byk tips lain yang dia kasi.
walaupon aku rasa dia mcm extreme parents sbb hantar anak kat international school tuh!
ni style mak bapak yang nak anak2 jd genius la ni.

hurms.
aku tatau la aku style parents cmne.
go with the flow?
mungkin tidak la aku anto anak aku g brain school ke apa tuh.

but aku akan cuba bagi dia suka buat aktiviti kat rumah.
Aku suka macam mana juliahoneyshakes and pinkstilettos handle anak2 dorg.
Insyaallah aku akan cuba cmtu.
Buat everyday moment aku n umar fun.

err nak tengok umar lebih lanjut follow ig aku ok? --> raihanalatip.
if korg pakai username pelik2 aku tgok takder muka korg aku susahla nak approve sbb aku takot strangers. sbb bukan main byk lagi on9 shop follow aku.
so if korg da follow aku tak approve, btau la kat sini nick korg aper kie? :)

 beli pool kecik utk umar. sorry la umar. mak ko cheapskate. beli pool murah tak dlm plak tu. nak swim pon tak feel eh? haha jadikla dari nanhado.

 dia ok senyap je dok dlm carrier dia ni. takder hal. suka main2 cmtu.

 kalau kat tempat mkn mmg selalu cepat resah. semua benda pon nak pegang.

 sbb tuh kena bawak toys dia n ipad. maapla bila mummy nyerh turn nak makan, mmg mummy bukak ipad sbb nak rasa tenang mkn 10 minit plis. lepas tuh aku sambung layan anak balik. haha

 petang2 mmg aku rajin bawak umar main buat depan rumah.

ni adik aku masa dia dtg.

mmg takder hal nak keluar berdua dengan umar. senang je kot nak disiplin kan baby dalam baby seat. train dari baby. insyaallah ok. tp aku pon tatau nasib aku cmne sbb umar baru 9 bulan stgh. haha shall see next few months kan?

9 bulan stgh la sangat.
esok 28 aribulan genap la umar 10 bulan.
sobs. kesat hingus. besar dah awak.
Thanks for being a good boy.
selalu hiburkan mummy everyday.

Update umar 8 bulan ++ & etc etc

nak dekat 2 bulan kan aku tak update blog.
bila umar makin besar, gila la makin takder masa aku.
if ada masa pon aku sebok update instagram, kemas umah, kemas bilik, basuh n organize barang2 baking gitu. Follow je la instagram aku --> @raihanalatip kalau nk cepat update kie? walaupon i SAHM tp i bz sgt setiap ari.

Perkembangan umar
- Aku rasa umar macam baby2 yang lain, skg dah merangkak dengan laju and dah start diri2 tp with support la. Tapi aku asik suruh dia merangkak je skg sbb aku takot tiba2 dia dah leh jalan. agagaga haha boleh gitu. rasa cam oit cepatnyer awak besar. bukan smlm tgh dalam pantang ke akakaka

- sbb next checkup dia masa setahun nti so aku timbang berat dia sindrik. Da nk dekat 10kg ko. Pergelangan tangan aku ni da sakit cm haper. Xpela tahan sikit.

 Masa kat umah parents aku. Bukan main suka dia merangkak laju2 sbb rumah luas.

Sekarang asik nak diri je. Ohs da botak. aku rasa setiap 2 bulan sekali kena potong rambut si umar ni. cepat panjang. aku yang rimas. walaupon rambut kpop dia comel.

- arituh dia sakit HFMD (hand foot mouth disease). Ya Allah tuhan je tau perasaan aku aritu. Warded sehari stgh sebab dia takmo minum susu. so doc tanyer nak warded or nak jaga sindrik kat rumah. sbb if warded company husband aku cover kan, of course la aku pilih warded haha lgpon dahla aku n family aku tatau pasal sakit ni cmner smer. dok ospital at least sng la nurse and doc monitor kan. sehari setengah umar takmo breastfeed ngn aku tuh, rasa luluh gila hati aku. ko bayangkan la budak ni kuat susu. hampir setiap sejam-2 jam dia nak susu tiba2 dia taknak nyusu sehari gila ko. terasa ooo.

yang best tuh sbb aku balik johor seminggu stgh sbb laki aku outstation tros jadi 2 minggu haha sbb warded anak kat johor kan. mmg aku tak bawak breast pump aku la. lgpon aku da lama tak pump susu dari umar 4 bulan. sbb dah direct feed je sbb aku kan dok umah jaga umar je. malas aku nak memenuhkan peti sejuk. yang penting bila umar sehari taknak susu tuh perghh tgh2 mlm aku tak tido pump susu secara manual pakai tangan. tabah tak? haha

but it's an unforgettable experience. masa dia warded tuh, nurse advice kasi gak susu dengan apa saja cara. so aku kasi pakai syringe. Dengan umar dah fobia dengan nurse and menjerit macam apa setiap kali makan ubat. ohs HFMD akan menyebabkan tekak baby ada ulser ye. so parents mmg kena tabah smpai baby recover. normaly hari kedua dah ok sikit. tp kena strong kuatkan hati kasi ubat, sapu ubat pada waktu2 yang nurse tu da btau la.

umar memang melekat je kat aku. aku dapat bilik sorg sbb sakit ni mmg kena kuarantin.
Bersyukur sangat aku kat johor at least parents aku n adik aku leh dtg melawat n jaga aku.
leh tengok2 si umar ni.
Hari ke-5 kitrg dah balik KL lepas cakap ngn doc kata ok semua. lega.
Hari ke-7 semua tanda2 merah and kudis kat muka n badan umar hilang.
Alhamdulillah.

Sampai umah damansara, aku g kemas rumah, vacuum and mop macam aper.
Dahla penat ngejar umar yang dah merangkak ke seluruh kawasan.
takper saper2 jadi mak sure akan polish skill sabar dan tabah. haha

skg ni....
mmg budak ni aktif sangat sangat.
umar ni susah nak nangis.
nangis bila nak susu or bila dia buhsan ngn toys dia.

Skg ni aku berjaya dah tak bukak ipad kat dia dah.
tabahkan ati je kadang2 bila mandi dia nangis sket2.
so solution nye kena la mandi masa umar tido.

tak bukak ipad dia dah start suka plak ngn baby tv.
bukan umar je suka aku pon sker some of lagu2 baby tv tuh.
tak rugi la bayar rm6 sebulan.
biasa la rumah takder astro cmni la haha naseb ada unifi.
takper susah jugak if taknak kasi dia entertainment langsung.
boleh tp aku belom sekuatttttt itu.

sbb aku rasa umar nyerh interest and 'explore skill' still balance.
Dia suka buku.
If aku baca buku utk dia or saper2 la tergelak2 mcm aper.
padahal tunjuk gambar ball, cat, cow je.
Kadang2 suka2 je aku baca buku cter kat dia mcm la dia paham.
hahaha yang pasti dia akan rampas buku tu balik n makan.
takper. yang penting dia suka buku kan :p

n dia pandai main toys dia.
semua pon dia main.
So aku rasa tak salah la aku bukak baby tv tu.
kasi dia tengok.
Masa dia tengah kusyuk tengok, bolehla aku lari2 kat dapur jap masak ke, baking ke.
Cammtu.
Jadi mak.
kena la multitasking.

Aku cam korang yg bekerja tak tido siang.
Cuma semenjak last week je aku terpaksa amik nap masa umar nap ptg sbb umar main lamaaaaa 5 jam straight dari kol 12 smpai kol 5 cmtu.
Rumah aku plak 2 tingkat.
Turun naik turun naik nak basuh baju la, nak kemas dapur la.
Tiba2 nak mandikan umar la.
Nak solat la.
Pastu layan budak kecik ni menjelajah ke seluruh kawasan.
naseb la umah aku kecik hehe tak besar mcm umh parents aku.
Kalo tak sure lagi pengsan.

Alvina Bakery
Pasal baking aku baru je berjinak2.
Sebok buat egg tart, cheese tart, bread pudding and mini tiramisu.

 Egg tart

Bread pudding

Mini Tiramisu

If nak order, mehla order ngn aku.
Prefer self pickup kat umah aku damansara utama.
Delivery sekitar damansara utama je.
Ni aku buat suka2 sbb tuh aku takder nak deliver kat tempat jauh2.
Tapi saper dok bangi insyaallah aku leh anto weekend sbb balik umah parents in law kat situ.

Boleh la guna duit tu sikit untuk beli toys and buku2 umar.
Aku malas nak promote sungguh2 sbb takot tak terbuat.
huhu tp if korg nak order, orderla insyaallah if tak clash tarikh boleh je.
Setakat ni masih larat lagi.
Sebab midnite aku sebok ngn kjr2 Creative Bytes plak - kjr2 buat website/shopping cart clients2 ku.
Sesaper nak buat website/blog, bolehla email aku.

Penat.
Tapi jadi mak memangla penat dari segi emosi and mental.
Tapi kena be strong and enjoy every moment.

Ok lah x sempat nak bebel byk2 lagi.
Letak gambar je kie.

Gi Aquaria masa last Disember

rindu plak umar tembam version ada rambut. okla lepas ni mummy simpan rambut awak la.

 Penat je angkut stroller last2 dia nak lekat ngn aku cmni. Fine umar.

 Actually memang lebih afdal pakai ssc sbb dlm aquaria tu sempit ngn orang sikit.

 Pergi ngn family akak aku. So ni bergambar ngn anak buah aku - zara.

Abes je tour aquaria, anak aku tido. so bergambar la aku ngn anak buah aku - aisyah yang sebaya umar hehe

Picnic g PD ngan family in law

aperla umar ni takot air plak -_-

Penat beli baju mandi RM76. Sila beli kat Parkson. Byk choice!

Naseb la dia sker pasir.

 Umar memang bukan morning person mcm aku. Kejap je da ngntuk nak tido. haha so tuh dia tengah tido.

 Bangun tido dah good mood nak merangkak atas pasir. haha comel sgt.

Asik suh maid akak ipar aku je amik gambar. Bestuh yang lain2 smer bersepah g mandi la. makan la. haha

Rasa nak g pantai lagi please. seronok sbb umar tengah jakun mode.

Nanti dia dah bijak, tak best mcm ni.

Sgt priceless expression dia. aku suka!

Aksi-aksi Umar

 Suka buat sepah suratkhabar. kata bagus utk motor skill eh? Layan~

err skg ni kawasan ni dah berpagar ngn bantal huhu.

Atas meja pon no more laptop, wires and cables.

Suka tengok baby tv sampai tahap camni. huwaaa

Kitorg takmo gantung tv sbb da nk pindah rumah. but will see how la.

setakat ni masih leh monitor si umar lagi.

insyaallah wont happen again this kind of action.

tp comel gak :p

Muka kenyang kot

Our sweetheart. 

Betul lah orang kata anak penyejuk rumah tangga (for now hahaha).

Mummy sentiasa doakan awak jd anak yang soleh, comel and hensem sampai besar, bijak dan dilindungi dari benda2 yang tak elok.

Puas ati aku dapat uplaod gambar byk2 smbil update cter umar.

Penang...

Ive been swamped with works since last 2 weeks.
Once umar sleep, i started doing my stuffs...
Well i just need to spare at least 1 hour for this entry on our last 2 weekend in Penang.

Actually we went there to visit my husband's grandparents.
Both of them are not in a good health.
I love his kampung as it's really looks like kampung haha if u got wut i mean.
The house, the surrounding, with padi field and all.

At first im a bit worried to go back as thinking on so many stuffs like can i handle umar in the kampung toilet, is there any bath tub for baby?, can i carry him to the room upstair when the stairs looks a bit scary and all, can umar sleep when there's no aircond?

pfft all my worried went away when we went there.
Umar is super easy baby. Actually i cant believe that he is 1 easy baby to handle when we travel like that.
He's not cranky at all.
He sleep well in the car for the 4 hours trip.
He's ok when anyone hold him.

About the bath tub, lucky, my husband's uncle has it. So we borrowed from them, and my MIL helped to wash the baby bath tub as it's a bit dirty as their kids already grown up. Yes, im thankful to have great MIL like that.

Ohs sbb umar makin gedebab haha maka aku berjaya pujuk husband beli snuggbaby.
Tuh pon sbb aku test sedap kat fabulous mom ttdi. Tros beli.
umar bukan main suka dok dlm tu masa test2.
Mula2 nak beli seram gak. RM300 bukan murah bagi kitorg.
tp pk byk kelebihan nyerh, maka aku tekad utk beli.
YES IT'S A GREAT INVESTMENT after use it for few times.
Baby luv it and i dun have any backache carry him around.
I carry him since i told husband if we buy it, im willing to carry him around. :p
sbb mcm syok tgok aku carry umar, husband pon nak carry umar gak pakai benda ni. haha
Paling penting jimat space boot keter oit. takya bawak stroller la kan g penang.
Takderla husband aku bising boot tak muat ke apa.

3 days in Penang kinda fun.
The main objective is to visit the grandparents.
They really look sick. I felt a bit sorry for them because his grandmother still have to cook for their meals everyday.
Sigh but dun want to eloborate much on that since it's their family stuffs rite.

First day, we didnt go anywhere.
Just stay at home, have a good chat with the relatives and the grandparents.
2nd day, went to Penang island, just jalan2 around the town.
I told them umar want to go to the beach :p, so the brother in law bring us to the beach.
Yey wish come true~
Just makan2 and let umar have some fun on the beach.
Enjoy the pics...

ni masa day 1. pakai awal2 sblom kuar keter g rnr. bukan main suka si kecik ni melekat kat aku

time ni umar da tertido dlm ni. lama gak la dia tido. adalah dlm stgh jam.

I luv the snuggbaby pattern. Serious kalo duit aku bertingket2, aku beli 10 snuggbaby ni. haha :p

gila ko kalo tak pakai carrier ni kena angkut umar cmni. si kecik ni bukan ringan ye.

dah sama berat cm beras. :p nk dekat 9kg!

 masa kat kg. see. happy sangat kan.

 tgok umar selesa sgt dlm tu

umar muka excited tgok burung

 time ni atas bukit. ujan renyai2. n umar tgh tido sedap dlm carrier tuh.

singgah pantai. yey

 mkn abc ujan2. hahaha dapp

 see he's so excited!

Hari ketiga, sebelum balik kl, kita singgah sawah padi dulu amik gambar...

 That priceless face

We will sure will come again next year...:)

Tahun depan umar dah leh lari2.

sure lagi best.