On umar development

Lets take a break from raya story and skip to umar's wean off.

Sebab byk interesting development after he's wean off.

Ok la mula2 nak share tips how to wean off your toddler (gulp!):-

1) talk to him slowly that it's time to wean off - definitely didnt work for umar. He never care to listen.

2) try la sapu asam jawa, sos tomato, coffee and all. - it almost work for umar but he became immune after day 5 and just ignore the taste and keep on bfeed. Not to mention the sudden 40deg fever for 3 days straight. Drama boy! - obviously gone case.

3) try to ignore his cry, and cuba berhati kering and jgn kasi bfeed - trust me u will lost the patience after day 5. That's y i stop using this method and give up to wean off during fasting month bcoz it's so stressed up and lack of sleep. - gone case and umar happy again.

4) this is hardcore step and u need full support from your husband to understand and to bear with the situation. I talk to umar. You are big boy now. U cant drink from mummy. You have to drink from bottle. Bila dia melalak n meraung, i have to jentik tapak kaki dia sampai dia mngalah nak bottle. I swear i only jentik n paling teruk pon pukul tapak kaki time dia meraung. Of couse this involve tears from me too. But i just cant take it anymore. My body so damn tired i need to wean off asap. I pray to Allah so much to make it easy for both of us. After 2 days, it success! Umar tak meraung n tak mintak langsung bfeed. Bila dia nak tido, dia cuma cakap "dukung umar".

So i just dukung, nyanyi2, baca doa, tepuk2 botot, baca selawat n dia tetido sendiri.

He drink 4x formula milk now.

Pagi, ptg, malam before tido n tgh2 malam bila dia terbgun around kol 3am.

He ate alot too. Imagine he ate 2 hashbrowns / 3 slice of pancakes for his breakfast.

Lunch n dinner mmg mkn nasi pon habis.

I started this wean off process after 3rd day of raya. Sbb kebetulan husband cuti kjr seminggu.

Just the right time to train umar. So takde la org tu stress tido knr kacau kan...

Changes after umar wean off:-

1) super easy to put him in car seat in long journey sbb dia pandai layan diri sendiri and tetido tanpa byk ragam.

2) he talks alot. He can make lot of full sentence now. It's so funny and amaze to see his developement. I know the next thg i need to be ready is his potty training. Lets take 2 months break before we start that kie? Rasa happy sbb wean off tak abes lg.

3) become independent and more creative when play. More focus now. 

4) when he sleeps, he love to ask me to sing this song:-

- 1 lil 2 lil 3 lil indian...

And he ask me to change it to escalator.

So i have to sing like this...

- 1 lil 2 lil 3 lil escalator...

And he asked me sing change escalator to lift. Then to moksu. To daddy. To ball. 

The funniest thg he asked just now before sleep "mummy sing lil berakkk"

Wakakaka aku gelak mcm apa.

Tp nak kasi dia tido nye pasal nyanyi je la...

- 1 lil 2 lil 3 lil berak... Omg!

The price that i have to pay for weaning him off.

Best tol umar buli mak dia.

After few songs he will fall asleep.

5) when you wean off, automatically it will be easy to sleep seperate bed. Hehe so happy for this. More space for me and no more sakit belakang. Bfeed moms sure paham nape sakit belakang kan. Mengiring too much! I love to see him sleep in his cot. Rasa berbaloi beli cot aka katil toddler ni dulu hahaha.

There's more. But thats all i can think of for now. Im so happy happy happy and syukur ya Allah sebab permudahkan akhirnye. Umar pon da ok melekat ngn daddy dia now. Fuhh bolehla pakai baju liplap2 penuh beading mcm rozita che wan pasni. Hehe just kidding.

Till then.

Kuasa la nak gado ngn mummy. Penat tau berdrama tiap2 malam ngn mummy. Baik aku mengalah. Kalau mood mummy baik mesti dia rajin bawak jalan2.

It's been 2 years 2months of bfeed journey. Im sure will miss the moments.

But it's time to stop ok?

Raya pertama dan kedua 2015

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

Umar da tido hoiii baru sempat nak update blog!

Orang lain dah raya kedua nye cter aku baru nak cerita pasal raya pertama.

Umar dah wean off (again!! Officially this time hahahaha) since last week so waktu nap dia agak lari2 sikit.

Boleh dia bangun kol 8pagi smpai pukul 3ptg baru nak nap.

Tu pon aku knr jerit TIDO NOWWWW!!!

Kalau tak aku berlemah lembut dari pagi memang takmo nap. Aperkah byk tol tenaga.

Aku sampai terpaksa amik 2 cups of coffee sbb terlampau ngntuk by tghari nak layan dia - basuh berak dia - housechores - on9 business etc2.

He eats alot too which is good alhamdulillah.

Ok back to cerita raya.

Tahun ni turn raya di batu pahat johor yeeeeehaaaaaa. Hahahaha heppi la dpt kumpul ngn mak abah, adik beradik jumpa sedara mara ku.

Bertolak dari rumah damansara pukul 10 pagi - singgah rumah MIL amik ketupat pulut - singgah amik baju raya husband - visit kawan alip yg anak dia baru meninggal pagi tu - beli lemang di bangi.

Wahh bertabahla bulan puasa yang panas with lot of pitstop.

Tapi umar good boy dlm keter tak byk ragam. Dia tengok kartun dia pastu dia tdo.

Korg nak beli ipad holder tu tak? Ada ready stock. Boleh check ig aku kie @shortalesbunny.

Sampai bp lebih kurang kol 4.30 petang kot. Sempat la check in hotel siap2 tp teros lepak umah mak aku smpai waktu berbuka.

Aku bawak balik kari daging requested by husband sbb dia nak makan lemang with kari daging.

Pastu byk la mak aku n adik beradik aku masak. Dah raya dulu a day before haha.

So tentolong apa yg patot pastu by 9.15 gerak balik ke hotel kunun nak singgah jln rahmat beli songkok husband pastu jamm yg amat so last2 beli kat the store sebelah hotel je haha.

Mlm tu umar ni susah plak nak tido sbb dia dah ter nap dlm keter.

Geram je aku.

Tp last2 dia tido gak.

Sok nye bgun pagi tros g umah mak aku. By 7.45 pagi dah start breakfast.

Bestnye tahun ni dpt makan ketupat with ayam masak merah n lodeh. Happppy sgt.

Biasa rutin kitorg lepas solat raya, bermaaf2an and amik2 gambar keluarga sebelum bergerak ke rengit untuk visit makcik2 aku belah mak aku. Atuk2 kitorg both side dah takde. 

Kitorg nye theme color hitam sbb husband said so dia teringin pakai itam. Aku layan je la takde hal. My dress from Zalia, Zalora. Thanks Zalora bagi voucher RM100 so aku just topup RM70 kot for this dress. Hehehe. Ada satu je pon baju raya. Umar pakai brown baju raya yg adik aku belikan dia tahun lepas still dia tak pernah pakai so takpela lari tone sikit janji takde pembaziran. Lgpon half day je umar pakai baju melayu by tengahari aku da tukar kan dia seluar pendek.

With adik beradik perempuan. Kiri aku tu ipar aku kawin ngn adik laki aku aritu aka my ex roommate masa zmn duk umah sewa dulu hahaha

With my parents. Sedih sbb rasa macam kejap sgt raya ni tak sempat borak sgt ngn mak abah bz sgt sediakan preparation raya sobs.

Ok lepas bergambar2 ni, kitorg tros g rengit. Sampai around kul 10am cmtu.

Makan2 jap pastu amik gambar kat jambatan depan rumah makcik aku tu.

Wajib la gambar situ sbb ada small river comel je.

Umar mula2 takot naik bridge pastu dah berani asik nak ajak g situ.

Time raya dia blom wean off ngn aku so ke mana pon asik ajak aku huwaa huwaaa.

Puasa terlampau bz n kurang kesabaran nak train wean off umar.

Dulu masa first time raya kat side aku, alip pelik kitorg giler bergambar.

Now dia dah biasa n tak heran pon kena 10x pose or jd tukang amik gambar hahaha

Well, dah pakai cantik2 kan... Plus raya setahun sekali ok.

With some of sedara mara kat rumah uteh. Gambar cilok dari akak aku nye blog hihi.

Dari rengit kita ke pontian. Ada 2 rumah. Ni rumah kedua ada pondok. Umar punya suka dia lompat2 mcm ape je. Pastu nak amik gambar dia memang semua gegar nyampah. Umar tu suka sangat ngn sepupu dia kak zara, anak akak aku. Sambil balik kl, anak buah alip pon dia panggil kak zara. Haha sukati je just bcoz anak buah alip rambut dia ala2 si zara. Si zara n zarip ni pon bagus pandai lagan si umar.

Sampai bp dlm 6.30ptg. Aku suh husband aku drop aku kat umah mak abah n suh dia berehat kat hotel lepas magrib baru dtg. Sbb aku risau kalau umar ptg tuh mood nak main ngn cousin2. Karang kalau lepak tido hotel dia bosan nti dia kacau kitorg nap haru.

Tapi aku silap. Walaupon umar da tido dlm keter, dia still tido kat umah parents aku ptg tu.

Haha penat sgt rupanye. Nak dekat kol 8pm baru dia bangun. Umar n anak akak aku aisyah sebaya.

Tp umar selalu buli aisyah ada ke pukul pakai kayu golf toy geram je aku. Dah si aisyah trauma ngn umar hahaha.

Malam xde paper sgt. Lepak2, borak2 pastu balik hotel pengsan tido.

Raya ke 2 yang penatnyerrrr sbb ramai sedara mara dtg beraya.

Dari pagi smpai ke malam.

Mak aku buat soto ayam/ bihun sup.

Cepat tol abes. Berkali2 kitorg g kedai topup brg untuk buat bergedilla, buat sup soto. Hehe tapi takpe.

Raya setahun sekali.

Orang dtg bwk rezeki.

Tp tuhla naseb byk adik beradik pompuan leh buat mcm2.

Sorg buat air, sorg basuh pinggan, sorg buat kuah soto, sorg siat2 ayam.

Pukul 11mlm balik hotel tp dah la hujan lebat mlm tu.

Yang lain2 tolong basuh pinggan smpai kol 12am kie.

Aku sedikit ralat sbb memang tak sempat nak visit kawan aku yg ayah dia baru meninggal masa kat bp. Sigh.

Ok raya ke tiga sok lusa aku smbung kie.

Last post for puasa

Alhamdulillah towards almost end of puasa...

Aku happy sbb da leh puasa...

Aku happy sbb tenant dah bayar after few whatsapp ugutan hihi kidding. Im a nice person u know just dun mess with me.

Aku risau jugak sbb plan nak masak few thgs before raya..

Ditambah plak ipar aku order frozen karipap utk dia bawak balik kg dia. Wahwah tgok la esok cmne.

Aku risau ada 1 parcel customer aku bila dia check tracking no ada ke dekat bintulu padahal dia dok perak.. Hoihhhh pos laju jgn la main2 ngn aku time raya.

Aku harap system yg salah.

Aku harap smpai kat customer aku before raya. Risau oit. Sok aku call pos laju. Kalau dorg angkat.

Tu je la.

Di samping sebok aku akan cuba cari masa dekatkan diri dengan Allah more insyaAllah hujung2 ramadhan ni kan.

Hotel kat bp pon dah book.

Aku baca kat fb ramai kecam budak2 skg tido kat hotel eh time raya.

Okla sbb ni bulan mulia, meh aku cter sikit nape aku pilih hotel.

Bukan gedik nak selesa taknak berhimpit2 kat kampung tau.

Tapi...

1) aku mengalah bagi adik beradik aku yg lain dokla kat bilik. Rumah parents aku kat bp ada 3 bilik je. Adik aku sorg baru kawin. Akak aku ramai anak2 nye n still breastfeed. So biar la dorg dok kat bilik.

2) taknak tido homestay sbb husband aku prefer hotel sbb dia allergic ngn habuk. Homestay yg kitorg pernah dok kat bp tu a bit berhabuk. Ko tau ke org allergic ngn habuk ni kesian tau. Dorg akan selsema dari malam sampai ke pagi. Mula2 masa kawin dulu aku ingt laki aku ni manja terlebih ni. Rupanye akak sulung dia pon sama. Solution nye if dorg da selsema kena makan ubat selsema n dapat tido yg berkualiti baru recover. Since dia yg membayo hotel, bia la kan. Janji aku dpt spend quality time with my family n husband aku tak emo sbb selsema. Kalo ikot aku, tido kat hall pon aku ok, tido kat homestay pon aku ok. Tp bila kau dah kahwin, ko takleh pk diri ko sorg. Kena la pk utk semua org. Paham?

3) walaupon tido hotel, tp aku da ckp awal2 kat husband. Balik hotel cuma time tido je. Memang aku akan tolong kat dapur etc. Laki aku sila la jaga anak ye time aku bz2. Hehe

Btw bila balik raya kat kampung alip kat penang pon kitorg tido homestay. Again main reason sbb husband ku allergic ngn habuk. So last year raya gigih aku google homestay best yang murah and bersih n dekat ngn kampung nenek alip. Alhamdulillah jumpa. Kalau boleh raya aku nak semua org bergembira n happy2 je.

Hoih tak sabar. Sok nak start packing baju, nak masak macam2. Best nye tak sabar nak balik kampung.

Selamat hari raya korg. Maaf kalau ada coretan di sini terguris hati and byk yg aku tak sempat reply komen satu2. Bz sgt. Sila jangan stop baca blog ni kie. Hehe

Feeling flawless. Ahahaha

Hati2 drive balik kampung tauuu