The one who suck at remaining relationships

Since im at bp for a week, i able to meet my good old friend, epi!

We've been friends since standard 6 tp form 1 baru become best friends.

I think im suck at remaining relationships.

Im too bz handling umar and daily routines, i hardly keep in touch with all my friends.

Not only friends, i hardly call or whatsapp my mom too.

I call my mom once in 2 weeks. I cant remember the last time i update on fb.

But i love to update on instagram and blog. I knew my mom and my family can read/see my daily life tru this 2 mediums. Prob is all my good friends not really into ig and blog.

Pfft. They only active on fb which i only see friends updates on fb once in a while.

Since now i have grey hair already, i think i shud keep in touch with them more often.

But i think nothing beats meet up! Just now epi came to my house and we have 1 hour talk. Time so fast i think it's not enuff for us. Shud meet up again which dunno when. Sigh. If only epi live in my neighbourhood. Or another my good chinese friend, lisa in the neighbourhood. I miss them already.

Eh wait if only my good friend, diana is my neighbour too. 

Shud contact all of them again.

Btw about wed preparation is crazy. The thg is my mom give kerepeks as doorgifts.

As we checking all the kerepeks, some of the plastic koyak a bit and make the kerepek lemau. Omg.

Thgs that im so scared of. So terpaksa la bakar balik n put inside the plastic again. So tiring!

Lucky im here helping them.

Lesson for next sister wed, no more kerepek ubi.

Use quality plastic.

Seal it properly. Pfft.

Umar plak mcm duduk kat heaven asikla kunyah kerepek pagi ptg mlm.

Kerepek fav dia. Now dia da panas sikit takderla melekat je kat aku. Pheww lega.

Thats 1 of the reason aku balik kg awal spy umar boleh adapt sikit kat sini ngn semua org n tak buat hal kat wed nti harapnye hehe.

Btw lega la gak sempat beli few thgs online for the wed coz i really tired to go out of the house plus the weather so hot nowadays. My mom siap terkejut beli tudung smlm arini dah smpai. 

On my ig shop, some of customer items sampai and alip la yg knr bersusah payah bungkus, tulis address n g pos opis. Takpela, bersusah payah sikit kan bukan selalu. Kesian gak la as aku knr bagi instruction kat whatsapp punya byk utk dia digest sesatu instruction. Risau gak aku boleh ke dia follow instruction properly. Hehe btw comel tak kasut budak2 kat bawah ni? Ni customer2 aku nye baru smpai td. Quality nampak cantik. Boleh la ke ig shop aku @shortalesbunny_kids kalau nak order kasut budak ok? Raya pon da nk dekat ni.

My bro's wedding at temerloh - Part 2

So the next day wake up early at 8.30am (lepas solat subuh tido balik of course), had breakfast downstairs at mamak because this is budget hotel so takdak cafeteria. So mamak je.

My parents belanja breakfast pagi tu kat semua sedara mara n family.

Masa kitorg turun ada lah dlm 2 more family je yg lain da abes mkn.

Umar time ni mood ok. Weird tol selalu pagi dia mmg tak memberi kerjasama.

Siap makan roti canai dia. Lagi la amazing.

Pas breakfast, kitorg pergi pekan temerloh jap sebab nak cari tempat print voucher groupon hotel hye receipt sbb nak ke bukit gambang after wedding nanti.

Lupa nak print dari rumah. Lagipon saja la nak jalan2 tgok apa yg ada kan kat temerloh ni.

Pusing punya pusing nampak kedai jual ball bukan main byk ball.

Suh husband singgah jap beli ball utk umar n anak sedara aku lg sorg spy dorg tak cranky kat reception nanti.

(Anak aku je cranky anak akak aku ok je).

Rm2 je ok ball tu. Murah oit.

Rasa nak beli 10 tp buat semak keter plak xperla.

Pastu jumpa kedai printer. Akak tu siap tido. Rilek betul sampai aku knr gerakkan badan dia.

Yerla hari sabtu knr kjr. Stress kot akak tu kan.

Lepas print balik hotel aku teros siapkan umar n kasi dia main ngn sepupu2 dia kat bilik sebelah while aku bersiap.

Kali ni cukup masa untuk berootd dulu dlm bilik hehe.

Tanye hubs nak masukkan baju ke lepaskan. Nak lepaskan nampak kosong sgt sbb kalo tak nak letak beads kan tp malam smlm nye tu no mood. So end up aku masukkan baju dlm skirt. Hehe. Both top n bottom beli kat butik vendors dekat ngn rumah aku @nananovendors sbb baju aku tailor da siapkan tp skirt je tak siap. So malas nak amik dari tailor. Mcm tak berbaloi knr g shah alam amik baju yg tak siap. So ko g la siapkan dulu baju aku, aku beli je baju lain. 

Kol 12pm checkout and berkumpul kat bawah. Sesambil tu bergambar dulu la ngn adik beradik aku.

Ngan husband. Nampak nye ni la tema baju raya kitorg tahun ni hehe.

Ngn my mom on left pic. Gambar kanan ngn akak aku yg pertama and adik aku yg bongsu. Akak aku yg 2nd x dpt ikot sbb anak dia demam panas n kena warded masa hari reception ni.

Umar sbb ada BALL dia, mood dia baik sangat. Pfft now i know why parents angkut segala jenis toy anak kemana2. 

Biasa la gambar dalam hotel nampak fresh kulit ala2 flawless gitu.... Tunggu jap lagi...

Lepas tu kol 12.45pm kitorg gerak dari hotel menuju ke rumah pengantin perempuan which dekat je dengan hotel udesign ni.

Haha amik ko berkilat muka memasing. No close up pics. Sbb takot. Hahaha

Nantila majlis belah lelaki kat batu pahat baru amik banyak2 gambar hehe.

Kol 2pm kitorg da gerak balik. Cuaca pon sangat2 terik.

Tp alhamdulillah umar tak cranky sepanjang majlis lelagi da dapat bunga manggar tu.

Naseb aku da suap dia nasi before gerak g wedding.

Umar ni bukan reti makan nasi kat wed orang. Dia minum air oren je.

Kitorg g bukit gambang lepas wedding. Yg tu lain entry.

Akak aku balik kl jap singgah hospital lawat akak aku yg 2nd kat hospital ampang puteri sebelum dorg gerak balik ke batu pahat.

Hari ahad esok nye husband dia kjr ok. Kat johor kan ahad kjr.

Dah selamat dah kawin adik laki aku.

Tinggal majlis belah batu pahat akhir bulan 4 nanti.

Aku dipertanggungjawab buat dia nye wedding photobooth kat batu pahat nanti.

Harap cantik. In progress dah ni. Nanti aku update kie.

My bro's wedding at temerloh, pahang - part 1

Akad nikah adik i suppose hari jumaat mlm, 20 mac.

Ptg tu baru nak gerak dari damansara since husband i kjr pagi tu.

Tp i dah siap2 pack brg n gosok semua baju n tudung.

Letak dlm keter semua siap2 so that husband balik tinggal makan n gerak je.

My parents n adik2 i dah gerak by thursday petang.

Akak i gerak pagi jumaat.

Akak i lagi sorg last minute x dpt pergi sbb anak dia demam panas knr warded plak tu kat ampang puteri.

So husband balik kjr boleh plak knr rushing siapkan kjr client kitorg.

Takper i sabar lagi. I bagi dia masa smpai kol 4 ptg je.

Kol 3.30ptg i siap2 amik cupcakes kat womdermilk untuk letak atas hantaran.

Umar plak jenis yg masuk keter tros nak tido dlm car seat dia.

I terpaksa ckp ngn dia belum lg umar kita nk g kedai cupcakes.

Sampai rumah je i ckp ngn husband, bia je x siap kita kena gerak skg jugerrr.

Naseb husband mendengar kata. Yerla if jamm ke on the road mmg naya la kan.

Baru masuk highway dah tetido. Mmg tido sampai ke temerloh. So sila la train anak korg dok dlm car seat dari kecik. Insyaallah sng travel. Yg tak senang bawak budak ni g wedding org je. -_-

Sampai temerloh just nice kol 6ptg. Kitorg stay kat hotel u design temerloh.

Hotel budget semalam RM120. Luas gak bilik aku. Cukup untuk umar berlari2.

Mmg dekat je dengan rumah pengantin.

Sempat la nak rest jap n teros bersiap untuk akad nikah.

Pompuan ni bukannye jap bersiap.

Kena settle kan anak dulu, kasi umar makan and susu, baru la aku leh siap.

By the time turun, semua pon da siap nak gerak dah.

Sempat la amik2 gambar jap.

With my makciks2.

This is the only nicest photo of me. Haha sbb umar x berapa memberi kerjasama mlm tu. Tantrum sgt kat rumah org kawin. Lapar kot. Aku da kasi sikit food before gerak. Well. Too long kot tunggu. Kol 9.30pm baru selesai akad nikah. Bila umar dah tantrum maksudnye nak susu. Tp lepas susu dia tantrum balik. Eee geram je.

The only adik lelaki in 5 siblings. Tak sangka da kawin...

Dengan ex-roommate aku... Hahaha

Jodoh ok. Last year when my parents sebok nak kenen2 kan adik lelaki i dengan anak2 kawan dia, aku pon suggest la ex roommate aku ni. Dulu b4 kawen aku sewa bilik kat kelana jaya. Duduk ngn aisyah ni. Aku bukannye senang nak masuk dengan stranger. Tp ngn aisyah ni aku boleh masuk. Pandai respect org tua, pandai masak (compare to skill aku pandai masak maggi mee je time tu) haha, pembersih and bijak ok. Dia engineer kot. Paling penting pandai saving and seorang penjimat. Tp masa aku intro dia kat adik laki aku pon, aku x expect apa2 pon. Kalau ada jodoh ada la kan.. Pandai2 la korg. Tup2 dorg kata nak bertunang pastu 6 months after dat kahwin dah. Alhamdulillah.

Sebenarnye aku relieve sgt2 it's Aisyah jodoh adik aku. Sbb insyaallah dia yg terbaik utk adik aku. Setahun aku kenal aisyah tak pernah aku rasa x senang dengan dia. Aku harap dorg boleh bersabar sama2 dalam mengharungi rumah tangga. Seriously bagus xya bercinta lama2 sgt. Sbb bercinta lama2 pon nanti kawin baru la character masing2 keluar kan. Hahaha. So aku doa yg baik2 utk dorg.

Btw back to cter akad nikah mlm tu.

Lepas umar tantrum tahap nangis meraung tertinggi, lepas amik gambar laju2, aku la balik plg awal.

Sampai hotel umar ok je.

Aku suap muffin smbil kasi dia tgok youtube.

Smbil mogok taknak layan umar jap haha. Mcm la umar kisah.

Pastu aku pelok dia ckp ngn dia jgn buat lagi cmtu.

Pukul 12 mlm umar tetido pengsan.

Plan nye mlm tu aku nak jahit beads kat baju aku utk baju aku nak pakai reception esoknye.

Tp aku batalkan niat ku sbb pk if umar tantrum mcm td tak bermakna baju cantik lip lap lip lap cmne pon. Sobs.

So mlm tu aku just iron baju ku n tido...

U design hotel kat temerloh ni convenient sgt2 sbb ruang iron ada setiap level n dekat dengan bilik.

Wifi pon laju ok. 

Kalau ada fridge setiap bilik dah perfect. 

Yerla aku bawak makanan umar siap2. Sup ayam n nasi. Terpaksa tumpang fridge kat kitchen dorg.

Umar tu mmg jenis suka makan makanan yg aku buat je. 

Okla cter pasal reception esok aku sambung insyaallah.

Weekend in malacca

Last 2 weeks we stayed in bayou lagoon park resort malacca, ayer keroh.

Just because it was near to the place where our cousin's wed was held somewhere in ayer keroh too.

The wedding was on sunday so we went there by saturday.

I made the booking via asiarooms for only RM320. Include breakfast for 4 and free entrance to the waterpark for 4.

There were 6 of us including my parents.

We stayed in the apartment consist of 2 rooms. So my lil sis and bro slept in the hall.

Haha and my bro complaint for had a backpain slept on the comforter.

Pity him shud bring thin mattress next time.

It was only for a nite so i thought stay there would be ok. Actually can get cheaper deal from the individual apartment owners just that im a bit late to book ours so there were all fully booked.

You can book as low as RM250 for 2 rooms apartment. But the apartment and waterpark are so-so.

Please dun have high expectation ok.

There were another story that i booked on the wrong date hahahaha but lets not go there bcoz it gave me heartache everytime i remembered about that. :p

Sebelum pergi i buat breakfast crossaints and mayonnese eggs supaya semua kekenyangan.

We departed from kl around 10am as husband wanted to go to mitc malacca to the home expo there.

I remembered the last time went to mother expo err the one that sell all the breastpumps, clothes for baby and all in kl. I love to go to that kind of expo when im pregnant because i think we can save alot buying baby stuffs. Husband dun think like me as he hate crowded places and rather spend lil bit more than going to those places. Ohs btw the mitc expo not so many people. Umar can even run happily inside there. Thats a huge different melacca n kl i guess?

After that, asked husband to bring us to pantai puteri to picnic there.

Haha i know it was 1.30pm when we reached there.

We have some time to kill before check in at 3pm.

I brought nasi ayam that i made a nite before. Goreng ayam pagi2 before bertolak.

Gigih x? Satisfied sgt dapat makan ngadap pantai and umar had fun too!

Umar da suap siap2 dlm keter supaya dia kenyang kat pantai and i have my own sweet time too.

Jadi mak2 kena pandai planning ok?

You guys can waze pantai puteri too if you go to malacca.

Quite clean and not so many people. Just nice to release your stress.

Shud see umar in my instagram so confident walking in my flats at the beach. Grrr.

Naseb la awak ni comel. Layan je la.

Muka akak sememeh sbb penat buat nasi ayam and selsema some more. Not enough time to cantik2. Haha

On the way to the apartment singgah beli pisang cheese. Biasa je.

N beli coconut shake ni. Tapi bukan klebang punya. Somewhere near there. Klebang punye coconut shake beratur panjang giler dahla panas. Ni kitorg beli x panjang sgt beratur. Sedap oit.

Check in apartment kol 4pm after lil drama tersala book tarikh. 

At 5.30 we went to the waterpark there.

Thought umar would have fun there but hampeh kitorg je la enjoy umar jerit nangis takot. Dia cuma have fun main 'lecak' as what my sister said haha. Sabo je la.

Lecak yang diperkatakan hahaha. Bawak g area swimming pool nangis cm hape gigil2 takot.

Takperla umar mummy percaya besar sikit mesti awak terer berenang mcm daddy. Mummy pon tak reti berenang tp buat2 berani je lebih.

My parents sampai apartment lebih kurang kol 7 mlm kot. Dorg dari batu pahat straight to dewan tmpt cousin aku kawin sok nye. Saje la tolong2 sket kan adik laki aku yg drive.

So by the time dorg smpai, umar da tidur kepenatan. Sbb dia skip nap ptg dia.

Kol 8 cmtu dia da terbgun tp cranky habis nangis non stop ok melekat je kat aku.

Aku tau dia nak nenen lama la tu.

Ok la kasi nenen pastu berak plak. Alahai. Takper sabar lagi.

Pastu kasi nenen lagi. Pastu dah teros dia bergembira main.

Mlm tu keluar jap g tmpt makan ikan bakar berdekatan.

Lper la nama tmpt tu adik aku yg bawak.

Dia selalu outstation g melaka so agak familiar ngn area tmpt mkn kat situ.

Aku makan asam pedas telur ikan. Sedapnyerrrrr.

Orang kata g melaka kena la mkn asam pedas or ikan bakar dia kan.

Parents aku tak ikot g mkn sbb dorg penat. Dorg tido awal. So aku n husband n adik2 aku je la g.

Dipendekkan cter package apartment aku amik tu tak include breakfast sbb sala tgok tarikh kan so terpaksa amik package lain yg tak include breakfast.

So kitorg pon beli je breakfast bawak balik apartment.

Bagus la area situ bukan kat bandar so byk je kedai jual breakfast.

Mkn roti canai je. Beli nasi lemak tp sorg pon x mkn sbb kenyang ngn roti canai.

Kol 12 checkout g wedding cousin kitorg tu.

Overall ok je stay kat bayou tu. Kalau dtg ngn family sonok la dok satu apartment leh la borak2 kan.

Cuma x dpt la borak sgt pon sbb parents aku smpi pon kol 7. Kol 9 kitorg da kua mkn.

Masa pagi pon smpt la gak borak sikit2. Sbb parents aku gerak awal g wedding. Kol 9 dorg dah g dulu.

G wedding, umar ok je behave tak dok diam. Explore setiap sudut. Main slide kat tepi dewan.

Sabar je la. Pastu agak2 dia busan suh aku dukung n tarik tudung aku. Mencabar ok.

Aku pon lupa nk kasi dia air in between time.

Masa aku mkn tu aku suapla dia food n air.

Means lepas tu aku biar je dia main lupa nak kasi air.

So kol 2 dia da haus n da cranky.

Takperla terpaksa la aku balik awal nmpak nye.

Haha baru paham perasaan mak2 bwk anak kecik g wedding.

Tudung aku masih teratur. Tupon patot bukan cmtu tp masih presentable. Masa nak balik aku masuk keter, mak aih takot tgok tudung aku senget2 umar tarik. So masa wed adik aku bulan 4 nanti mmg aku pakai instant shawl je. Jgn harap aku nk pin2 ni. Aku takder masalah bersiap pakai shawl cmni. Tho aku benci bab gosok2 je. Sbb umar kan rapat ngn aku so aku tau bila dia cranky mesti dia akan tarik tudung aku huwaaa.

Whatt?? I didnt do anythg.

So kol 2 ptg kitorg da on the way balik ke kl.

Kol 4 lebey smpai kl x jam pon. 

Overall, sonok g melaka ni.

Dulu aku selalu berangan nak settle down kat melaka sbb nk rumah tepi pantai.

Haha tapi jodoh ku org kl la!