Life updates

Lot of things happened pass this 1 week. Let me recap few that i can remember.

1. 2 parcel customers tertukar. Glad that finally both of them got their items back! Pheww

2. Umar terkunci kan aku kat belakang rumah masa aku nak angkat kain. He didnt use key. He just use chopstic. So korang boleh imagine tak betapa cerdik and lasak nye umar sekarang. Btw i able to guide him to take the key but i think he was too nervous he was not be able to take the key properly. It was hang on a high area. But good job umar. He just 2 years plus yet he can listen to my instruction properly. To pull a stool and climb on the stool definitely need a courage. He never climb on that stool before. I kinda afraid he might fall down but lucky ntg happen. He tried few time using other thgs but his height is not enough for him to reach the key. So i whatsapp my husband and he rushed back 1 hour later. Funny part was when he was tired tried everythg, he lie down on the carpet continue watching his disney junior on tv and forgot about me for about 15 mins. I was so tired giving instruction to him too so i just sit down on the floor outside browsing ig and fb hahaha. It was definitely memorable moment for us. Both neighbours asked for what happened try to help but i told them nvm my husband was rushing home. I kinda sure the topics for their dinner was "you know what our neighbour got locked outside the house by her son..."

3. Aku terlanggar anak kucing jiran semalam. Tp still hidup kaki depan je patah. I was so sad i hardly sleep yesterday and i keep cry all day. But a long sleep make me feel better. They send the poor kitten to the hospital and cost them 2k. Hurms. But they didnt blame me. I already check under the car no kittens when i reverse the car. I kinda sure the kitten suddenly appear from somewhere. The sad thg is it's umar's fav kitten. Paling manja ngn aku n umar.

Pastu baca quote ct lagi buat aku kuat. Allah takkan duga kita dengan dugaan yang kita tak mampu hadapi. Somethg like that.

At the same time im happy that my akikah set / newborn set sangatla macam pisang goreng panas. Alhamdulillah sgt2 skg tgh restock items and now tinggal few more je ready stocks.

Visit @shortalesbunny or @shortalesbunny_kids

Visit @shortalesbunny or @shortalesbunny_kids

Visit @shortalesbunny or @shortalesbunny_kids

Some of customer feedbacks.

Some of customer feedbacks.

Okla gotta need to sleep now. Tomorrow im gonna start my day with shaklee. Will share the experience later samada cramp malam2 ni hilang ke tak lepas ni. N adakah tenaga aku cukup utk handle umar yang active nyeeee + doing housechores + on9 businesses.

Latest update

Last week im so bz with my sickness haha gila lama sakit kali ni. Batuk n selsema sampai seminggu. Now tinggal runny nose je alhamdulillah so much better tday.

Sangat2 aku hargai nikmat sihat Allah kasi selama ni.

My friend share that she started to feel backpain and all.

Jd jaga la kesihatan korg ok.

Tu husband ku dah knr bebel ngn doc suh benti rokok hehe sbb dia da start wheezing OMG.

Sblom aku jatuh sakit tu sempat la aku survey playschool umar kat taman tun.

School apa xle btau.

Kesimpulannye aku mmg tak jumpa playschool idaman utk hantar umar.

Bgtau husband lebih baikla aku ajar umar sendiri pastu weekend joinla apa2 program kids.

Kan skg ni mcm2 kelas baking la, brain program for kids blablabla.

Those program bukan cheap dah sama je mcm ko register playschool.

Well i havent decide yet.

Sbb baru baik sakit tros focus kat online business this week.

Masa sakit last week, ptg aku auto tido join umar nap.

Kepala berat gila, tekak sakit semua. Mmg nyampah tgok ig hahaha.

Now this 2 days supplier buat gila2 kaw discounts plak mestila aku knr cpt grab.

Sian umar aku neglect dia 2 harini.

Muahaha tp pagi td dah bawak dia naik basikal 1 taman, bukan main happy dia.

Alhamdulillah trimester 2 ni so much better.

Trimester 1 kan aku emosi manjang. Trimester 2 aku ilek2 je. Semua masalah kitorg berjaya discuss leklok. Takde mengidam bebukan.

Everythg back to normal. Alhamdulillah.

My husband pon sangat2 helpful dlm semua benda.

Walaupon dia bz, aku bz. Sama2 boleh give n take.

Btw aku baru launch akikah set last week kat ig shop aku @shortalesbunny and @shortalesbunny_kids.

Feel free tengok kie.

Harga n details korg tgok kat ig kie?

Saper penggemar pink? :)

Umar plak makin bijak sangat2.

Sigh i hope i can expose him with lot of creative thgs everyday.

Okla nti sambung lagi.

Now nak kemas rumah, lipat kain n masak jap lagi for dinner.

Tentang macam2

Aritu pasal gas dah settle. Haha sengal baru tau kalau abes gas, boleh call gas petronas ok.

Ni number nye:-

Baru la happy aku memasak. Tak perlu drive keluar rumah demi sesuap nasi haha.

Pasal hal rumah di bsp hampir settle - rumput, lampu, kipas. grill je sikit lagi. Katanye lagi 2 minggu.

Now sebok dengan photobooth adik aku. In progress.

Btw different topic, kitorg still buat jugak kjr web sikit2 tp more on my husband's part. Aku nye setakat handle invoice n manage timeline je.

Ada client x ni aku mmg da ckp ngn hubby bermati2an xmo continue buat project ngn dia sbb she just plain stupid. Aku bukan jenis nak letak kt blog pasal perihal client.

Tp once dia dah melangkau kesabaran, yes u deserve an entry here.

Dun think she will read this entry pon sbb excell pon dia tak reti. 

Tahap communicate ngn dia mmg knr explain dari beras tu nak masak berapa pot. Letak air ikot atas jari cmne. Haha cmtu la cternye.

So im jot gonna explain the detail here but she didnt read the last email i send to her and keep on barking us not doing proper work.

Padahal dah siap tunjuk demo lagi. Wth.

Then she read the email n she manipulate thgs.

Paling best dia panggil aku 'gondol'.

Nampak tak perangai jenis manusia cmne aku deal ni.

Show the msg to husband and told him thats the last chat. I dun wanna deal with her anymore.

X ni dulu ex-colleague aku kat opis lama.

Kat situ semua orang pulaukan dia.

Well, aku pon tak suka opismates aku time aku kjr situ.

Plus aku kjr situ pon 3 bulan je haha.

So she keep on complaining about her works n stuffs to me.

Dun mind at all as long tak kacau kjr aku. Plus actually dia baik.

Bagi aku dia lebih baik dari ex-colleagues aku yg lain2 tu.

Cuma ya Allah work etique dia ada problem kot.

Communication dia pon prob dats why make thgs worst.

Tp aku pk takperla hati dia baik aku pasti pasal benda tu, so kitorg continue being friends tho our age gap is huge.

We lost contact until last year she contacted me to do her web projects.

Yada2 mcm2 prob bila deal ngn org yg tak firm dengan apa yg dia nak.

Paling best merendah2 kan hasil kjr kitorg.

So ini ke nilai friendship tu?

Haha now i know y everyone cant work with her. Pfft.

U have to have a good heart n ATTITUDE too. 

Sometimes aku rasa dia ni boleh berfikir secara waras ke tak. Sometimes apa yg dia ckp tak masuk akal.

Paling best tu dia nak ckp ngn another designer to get her initial for the design, but she spell it as IGNITAL. Adoiyai yg designer tu tanye kitorg apa benda tu dia da google tak jumpa maksudnye.

We laugh like mad! I know husband n i so bitchy rite?

Well, u deserve it lady.

Maybe yesterday she deal with huge stress wutever like i dun have other thgs in my life too.

Toxic camni aku tinggalkan kat blog ni supaya aku xya pk lagi.

X sedih pon. Bagi aku ni part of life. Sometimes mmg kena deal ngn benda2 cmni.

Sorry korg knr baca cter cmni. Hehe sesi meluahkan perasaan namanye.

On umar.

Ya Allah budak ni makin bijak berkata2.

Sometimes benda yg kitorg tak sangka dia dah digest.

Can even sing lot of songs with correct rhythm! He really listen when we sing to him.

He even sing the alif ba taa song quite well. Im so impressed hampir berkaca2 mataku sbb kagum.

I didnt push him at all.

(Obviously i open those youtube songs when i want to feed him food or to make sure he drinks his fm).

A mom gotta do wutever she needs to do you know as long you limit the time. :p

So half an hour for youtubes, then done.

Yesterday he count 1-20! Told husband bout it n he couldnt believe it.

Nvm ill make sure umar count it again in front of husband.

For 1y10m ++ i think dats a great progress.

He can even undertand simple instructions like plz put ur baju inside the pink bakul. Or plz take your abc book. N he choose the correct book that i meant. 

Hehe but still not success to make him clean up his own toys or drink his fm without need to watch youtube or tv. Boleh tp mmg menguji kesabaran sangat2.

Nvm everythg take time rite?

If you want to see his daily progress u can follow my ig @raihanalatip.

He insisted to buy that sunny in black color ok. Pfft layan la walaupon terbang RM9.

Penggila balloon. Ni masa birthday anak buah aku last weekend.

My face like bibik bcoz i didnt makeup at all. Help to mount the photobooth paper to wall and mandikan umar n anak buah aku lg sorg. Wahh

Ni masa takder gas tapau lauk from nearest gerai and i luv the sup sayur! So td aku try buat sup sayur cmtu huhu jd! So next time nak beli fish ball, suhun sayur2 lain buat stock sup sayur.

Btw korg nak beli harem pants mcm aku pakai tu tak? Boleh follow ig shop aku kie @shortalesbunny. Preorder 2-3 weeks. Material polyester jenis licin sikit mcm material raincoat up to korg suka ke tak. Aku ok je. Dia tak jarang at all. Yg aku pakai ni size XL. Biasala vontot besar haha plus cutting dia mmg kicik. Kalau xtatau size boleh tanye aku kat whatsapp details sng aku guide. 

Aku pernah beli freesize harem pants cotton kejap je hancur wey. Mebi sbb vontot aku besar sgt. So yg ni aku dah pakai 2-3 kali masuk mesin basuh 2-3 kali pon tak rosak lagi xde benang terkeluar. For Rm40 inc postage i think quite reasonable. :)

Lastly, raya dah dekat korg taknak beli kasut raya untuk anak2 korg. Preorder la dari skg nanti raya dah leh pakai. :) ohs yg ni sila follow ig shop ku lagi satu @shortalesbunny_kids khas untuk kasut budak2. 

Rumah kehabisan gas.

Dah 2 hari rumah aku kehabisan gas.

Gila buntu wey nak lunch n dinner apa.

Bukan taknak call org gas, dah call takder saper angkat.

Da tanye jiran sebelah, dia kasi no contact sama yg aku ada pfft.

Penat la cari kedai dedekat yg jual gas pon takder.

Apa ke bangang dok kat damansara utama, sebelah ou tp nak cari kedai gas sikit punyerla susah.

Hangin ok. Malas nak g check jejauh nanti jamm sana sini.

Aku survey ngn umar berdua je waktu siang.

So mana la boleh lelama sgt dlm keter. Umar tu lama sikit karang dia lemau.

So dah 2 hari aku makan mcd. Macam org kaya sgt.

Just bcoz easy to drive tru. Nak g damansara uptown tu nak menangis if nak cari parking.

Belum lagi stuck dalam jamm.

Convenient sgt kan tempat tinggal aku ni.

Maap la umar 2 hari umar kena makan fries for lunch. So unhealthy.

Malam mcm td ajak husband makan chic rice shop so berkhasiat la sikit. 

Sok pepagi harap lori gas lalu dpn rumah.

Aku malas nak penat on the road sbb nanti bila badan penat, benda lain tak jalan.

Contoh mcm bila weekend aku terlampau penat, aku malas nak gosok baju husband, vacuum rumah, nak basuh baju nak sidai kain on senin.

Aku buat tp alahai lembab sgt. 

Pastu waktu umar nap ptg aku pon tetido sama.

Senin je la selalu lemau cmtu.

Biasa hari paling productive hari rabu n kamis.

So bila benda2 cmni happen, sunguh stress. 

Last weekend dok rumah mil kat bangi kan.

Sangat la convenient umah mil aku tu, sbb weekend hectic so tak larat aku nak cook for umar plus mil pon bz kat kitchen so malas la aku nk sebok gak memasak food umar at the same time kan, took me only 10 mins g beli ikan goreng kat kedai mamak depan rumah dorg, n umar leh teros makan. RM2.50 je pon. Kalau kat damansara ni, everythg is money. Nasi ayam dah rm8. Nasi kukus pon rm8. Lauk campur tak pernah try beli.

See the difference dok bangi n damansara ni?

Yerla kena la berjimat cermat kan.

Aku kalau kuar ngn umar tu biasanya sbb nak pos barang so alang2 g la melilau sikit kat dlm ikano or curve tu. Sambil menyelam minum air kan.

Umar kalau dengar perkataan jalan2, first dia ckp "where's the shoes? Where's the shoes"

Dia suka escalator, lift, and stroller. So mmg sng la bawak dia jalan.

Cuma kudrat aku je kenala byk.

Btw stress aku td. 

Aku da nak tetido.

Tetiba husband masuk bilik, dengar dia tercari2 benda la.

Few times aku da nak tetido dengar dia batuk la selsema la.

Sigh geram ok. Aku ni mmg jenis susah nak tido mlm.

Last statement aku kat dia, aku nk g lipat baju kat bawah sbb takle tido dgr dia batuk.

Baru la dia dah in lalala land now.

Tinggal la aku terkebil2 ntah cmne la nk tido ni.

Tu yg aku end up berblog la jap.

Ni td kat chic rice shop. Anak aku yg tengah pura2 mkn

Suka betul dia makan kat sini memalam. Yerla kitorg kan jarang makan kat luar weekdays. Mesti dia ingt dah weekend. Behave plak tu masa makan.

When you least expected it - part 2

Sebenarnya aku rasa belum masanya untuk aku update pasal benda ni...

Tp since lately ni mmg macam2 sgt dlm kepala hotak ku....

Aku rasa knr muntah kan gak....

Bunyi nye mcm menakutkan kan?

Ok citer nye camni...

If korg baca entry aku last week, aku baru je update pasal ada sesiapa nak sewa rumah kat bandar seri putra?

Tetiba pap da ada org nak sewa n dah bayar full semua ok.

Amazing tol sbb kitorg baru gak la advertise kan kat few platform dlm masa sebulan setengah.

Mmg tak pakai agent tp ada plak agent 'ulat' ni approach kitorg.

So nak taknak knr la bayo agent tu sbb dia yg cari kan org.

Cter pasal agent ni nanti la cter sbb nanti boleh mendatangkan kemarahan. Muahaha.

Alhamdulillah rezeki la kot?

Sbnrnye aku nak sgt dok umah tu.

Yerla bertapa ingat susah nye nak beli rumah time tu baru kahwin.

Baru tukar opis baru, lari jap time lunch nak settle kan urusan membeli semua. 

Time flies, lepas setahun kitorg still x mampu nk duduk situ.

So we decided to rent it out for good.

Tempat strategic, dekat dengan alot of facilities tak jamm mcm damansara utama ni.

Tapi xpe belum rezeki kan. Redha.

Kalau kita redha lepas kan sesuatu yang kita sayang mungkin Allah gantikan dengan yang lebih baik.

Percaya tu ok.

So now byk lagi x settle.

Nak beli lampu, kipas n pasang grill.

Semua tu aku la yg knr buat research.

Pasang grill tu la pening.

Dah contact few people. Tp tuh la budget rendah kan.

Nak simple tp secured tp in budget kitorg. Cmno tu.

Anyone nak recommend trusted people around area kajang, bangi, semenyih, bandar seri putra or bukit mahkota?

Macam aku cakap td aku dah contact few ppl and dorg tinggal nak dtg ukur n kasi quotation je.

Cuma will be nice if aku baca or korg sendiri share own experience kan?

Tenant ku masuk 1 april.

See 15 hari je lagi untuk aku settle kan grill, pasang lampu n kipas.

Tu 1.

Other thg, tgh tunggu preorder items customer ku sampai.

Aku check sok baru sampai all the customer nye order yg bulan 2.

Sbb dorg cuti raya cina aritu. Dorg cuti SEBULAN ok. Pfft aku baru tau. Aku patot close order bulan 2.

Tp aku tak tau dorg cuti. Lesson learned. Walaupon da terangkan kat customer tp x sedap la hati kan dorg dpt item lambat. Buruk la nama ig shop ku.

So insyaallah next plan mmg ready stock items je.

Tp tunggu la. Modal nye pon knr byk.

Nak kumpul modal tu hoih berpeluh.

Tp puas ati tau. Bila ready stock item ni, customer bayo, terus je pos.

Tunggu ok. Tunggu saat itu.

Pastu wedding adik aku weekend ni.

Baju aku tailor baru siapkan. Esok baru nak amik.

Nape la aku pakai tailor lagi kan nape x pakai ready made je.

Ahah tu pon nanti la explain. 

Rabu ni memacam aku nak settle kan.

Nak amik baju melayu laki aku, nak sign agreement rumah, nak singgah here n there.

Aku mintak tolong parents aku teman. Saje la nak kasi dorg tgok rumah tu dulu b4 org lain duduk.

Sedih sbb mak abah tak sempat pon dtg lagi, rumah dah knr sewakan.

Takpe knr redha kan kan kan.

Ok now dah update entry baru perasaan mengantuk datang.

Susah nak tido sekarang memikirkan byk benda.

Tp still bersyukur sbb Allah bagi byk peluang dan permudahkan perancangan kitorg.

Cerita weekend lepas. Umar jumpa cousin - mikhail. Skg da pandai main sama2 dua2 ni. Suka tengok. Umar mmg da pandai berkawan skg. Lagi beso budak tu lagi dia suka. Ohs lagi satu dah kena start buat research playschool umar tahun depan. Dah jumpa 1. Dekat n harga ok la. Not bad. Cuma nak parking tu bercinta. Well what u expect living in damansara area rite. Everywhere like sardines. -_-

Extra patience

Was eating maggi when i write this entry.

Writing blog is really therapeutic for me.

I always bfeed umar when i wrote previous entries but not for tnite haha.

He finally sleep just now after membebel-mengempeng-membebel-mengempeng.

About umar, last 2 weeks i keep on marah2 him for being notty sometimes.

Tau2 la umur si umar ni sangat curious for everythg. But then i end up hate myself for treat umar like that.

So since last week, i change. I hug him everytime he cried wants somethg so bad.

Most of the times he wanted all the weird thgs - sambal kicap dlm tupperware biru, serbuk pisang goreng, detergents. Seriously all the weird thg -_-.

So i talked to him nicely and distract him by doing other activities with him tho sometime during that time i was bz preparing meal.

I realized he listen to me better when i being soft to him instead marah2.

He kissed me more in returns haha.

It's tiring to entertain him all the time since i have lot in my to do lists.

But i want to raise him in positive surrounding and aura, so i tried to be more patient and sacrifice whatevs in my long to do lists. Also, before this i have this habit let him watch youtube when feeding him food. Now i change. It's been a week and half i feed him and read books with him at the same time. 

Umar memang jenis ok je takder hal plus mmg dia suka la ada org mengadap dia je kan huahua.

Cuma time kasik fm milk dia sometimes tgok mood dia. If dia minum dgn rela hoih lega gila i mmg puji dia berbakul2 hehe. Sometime kalau dia start reject fm i terpaksa la bukak youtube. Sambil berpesan mummy bukak ni kejap je tau sampai umar habis minum milk. Lepas minum, mummy tutup. He's fine with it too! Yang penting dia minum habis. Lega. Dulu byk la part knr marah2 kan. Skg xya. Ckp baik2 sambil geletek2 dia sikit mmg dgr ckp. 

Last 3 days i managed to lipat kain 3 bakul haha. Padan muka suka drag2 kan.

Pastu rasa tak nak basuh baju dah sbb nti knr lipat.

Pastu sbb menyampah sgt gosok baju kjr husband setiap mlm trus gosok baju dia seminggu campur ada extra 1 utk minggu dpn. Husband kagum. Sbb thgs like dat mmg takkan selalu berlaku haha. Tu maksudnye i cannot tahan anymore.

Esok husband amik cuti byk hal knr settle kan.

I pon kena teman dia pepagi sok. Takperla boleh la i beli nasi lemak. Lama nye x makan.

Cuma part umar merisaukan i. Harap dia boleh tido balik lepas keluar.

If nap dia lari, mmg i pon bad mood ok. Haha

Lately ni i rajin bawak dia g playground ptg2 main ngn cucu neighbour i and sometime ngn budak2 lain gak. Suka tgok diorg berlari2. Gelak2. Holding hands. Hehe comel. Cuma kawan umar semua girls.

Cousin umar sorg je boy. Now dah pandai sebut nama cousin dia tu.

Dulu umar ngn cousin laki dia tu selalu la gado ntah paper je bila jumpa.

Skg dah best friend habis kejar kucing sama2. Main kejar2. Lega aku umar dah phase boleh berkawan ni. Hehe kalau x dia nangis mmg melekat je kat aku dulu.

Pastu minggu ni i mmg x larat nak masak sgt. Maybe minggu period ke hape tatau.

I mcm whatever. Sbb if lama sgt kat dapur nti umar terabai. So mmg i masak simple giler minggu ni.

Ayam goreng, nasi goreng, meggi goreng, and burger. Yg pasti mmg sempoi2 je minggu ni. Selalu mmg rajin la i buat susah2.

Esok i buat nasi ayam la insyaallah if rajin. Nasi ayam pon category sng utk i.

Esok husband cuti boleh la ptg dia melayan distract umar jap sementara i guna blender. *sbb umar takot blender haha*

My parents will come to my house this sunday yey! They will be at my place about 4-5 days like dat.

Mesti umar happy. Dia asikla tgok gambar atuk sebut atuk so many times. Mummy miss atuks too umar.

And at the same time my mil will be discharge from hospital tomorrow.

Hope her condition is ok. Maybe i will make some porridge for her before balik bangi this weekend.

Tau x tu apa? Tu frame ok. Lantakla umar. Janji bahagia.

Ohs aritu cter yang umar ni g pos laju mesti ceria je kan. Skg aku da ok bawak dia tghari sikit lepas bagi dia lunch. Sbb mood dia sgt ok. Mmg knr menuggu sikitla kat dlm pos laju tp yg best semua org pon nk kasi tempat duduk. Bukan 1 seat je se-bench terus muahaha sbb umar turun naik turun naik kerusi buat mcm playground dia. Pastu sebut kuat2 color kasut org *fasa kenal color*. Tp dia x kacau org. Dorg pon sengih je kat umar. Good boy sgt. Sbb behave well, balik singgah drive tru mcd beli ice cream choco top. Reward umar. *alasan* padahal sendiri yang nak makan hehe. Panas tol cuaca skg kan.

My 'me time' bila dia nap ptg cmni bahagia tol 2 jam je pon hehe. 

Biasa kalau dia bgun nap ptg mesti nangis nak susu. Kalau wean off completely ntah la cmne awak ni umar. Mesti sepelaung taman dgr umar nangis...